Ever wonder what the most condescending phrase in the English language is?
It’s “Must be nice.”
Nothing demonstrates a person’s insecurity and jealousy more. The speaker is implying that the other person didn’t earn something.
But guess what? If you want something in life, you can have it. If someone from your background and circumstance has achieved something in life, you have to accept the possibility that you can too.
Work hard, bust your butt, and you can be a “have” instead of a “have-not.”